Blog – Simply A Mama
“Even if I don’t look picture perfect I’m the closest thing to perfect in my son’s eyes.”
When I first found out I was pregnant I did a lot of research about everything relating to babies. I felt that I was so prepared, little did I know I wasn’t prepared at all.
My labour and delivery didn’t go as I pictured it. Breastfeeding was a struggle as well. This made me so much stronger.
Becoming a mother strengthened my bond with my mom. Everytime I hold my son and feel that overwhelming kind of love ,I remember my own mother.
My relationship with my husband also became stronger and our love grew; even though we don’t have as many date nights but seeing how much we both care for the baby brought us closer.
I gained a lot of weight during my pregnancy and my husband was extremely supportive and never pointed out my weight gain.
I judge other mothers less now that I’m a mother myself. I know every mom is trying her best. I always reminded myself that every mum goes through this and I always seek my mum’s advice on anything baby related.
“To the mum whose child is having a complete toddler tantrum in public, to the busy mum who ends up buying store bought baby food, I can’t judge any of them.”
I love how I have changed after I became a mother even if I don’t look picture perfect I’m the closest thing to perfect in my son’s eyes.
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